The Adventures of You & Me: Blog en-us (C) The Adventures of You & Me (The Adventures of You & Me) Sat, 12 May 2018 18:35:00 GMT Sat, 12 May 2018 18:35:00 GMT You Are O N E

Alo Monroe Baird. You, my playful little fox, have been with us for an entire three-hundred-and-sixty-five days, though it feels like you've been with us from the start. You've given my life so much more depth and meaning than I could have ever imagined. You helped me find myself, my purpose, and the drive to be the best I can be so I can be an example for you. I keep looking at this paragraph, feeling like I need to write more about how much you mean to me, but I don't think I could come up with the words if I tried. 

There's so much I don't want to forget about you in this stage—you're changing and growing so much I can barely keep up. You've been waking up at night this past week, I think, because your brain is developing at the speed of light. You're still not walking, but your language has starting pouring from your lips! It surprises me when you call something by name so intentionally. 

First Words:

  • Tickle (First Word, though I'm not sure you know what it means)
  • Mama
  • Dada
  • Ow! (No doubt repeating me every time you pull my hair or pinch my skin a little too hard.)
  • Hi! + Wave
  • Hey! 
  • Baby — We were looking at a book of babies from around the world, and you started repeating me when I said, "Baby!". Later in the day, and the next morning, you crawled up to the book, turning its pages, saying "Baby. Bay-beee!" Now, though, you refer to all books as "baby". Not a bad thing to treasure. Books can definitely be your babies. 

Favorite Activities: 

  • PLAY IN THE DIRT! It amazes me how quickly you can get truly disgusting, complete with dirt crammed under your fingernails. 
  • Play, "Find the bellybutton" on Mom & Dad. You lift up our shirts, stick your finger in the hole, and look at our faces expectantly waiting for us to squeal, giggle, and jiggle. You could do this for hours, I think, but you're really starting to poke a little too hard. 
  • Walk with your baby walker. This only holds your attention for a few moments, as you haven't learned how to turn yet, but when you do run back and forth through our little house, it's impossible for you to contain your laughter and glee.
  • Bathtime, or, anything with water, really. You can splash like nobody's business.The first time I took you to the beach, your crawled right toward the ocean waves, not thinking anything of it. Everyone was quite impressed that you did not eat any sand. Just squidged your fingers in it joyfully! 
  • Hiking. Need I say more? You're the best little adventure companion. The best birthday present to all three of us was a new Osprey hiking backpack from REI, since hiking in the Tula baby carrier is getting a little less comfortable to take long treks in. Unfortunately in this new pack, you have close access to my hair. OUCH! 
  • Bike-Riding. You really did hate it at first. I think you were a little bit small when we first started out, but now you love the speed and the wind blowing through your hair. 
  • Playing with your babies (books). You're not super interested in "toys", but you love exploring new things, pulling things apart, and emptying containers. 
  • Empty the pantry. I made it off-limits for a few weeks because I was so tired of cleaning up after "Hurricane Alo", but you stay occupied in there for so long!

Outdoor Activities You've Done In Your First Year:

  • Hiking
    • Locally in NY
    • North Carolina
    • Yosemite
  • Camping at Letchworth State Park
  • Biking at Presque Isle with Zoey & Zander, and on The Catherine Valley Trail 
  • Kayaking countless times with Nana
  • Went Blueberry Picking
  • Went Apple Picking
  • Went Strawberry Picking
  • Swimming 
  • Snow-shoeing 
  • Went to the Races at Watkins Glen
  • Watching Mommy & Daddy Water-Ski/ Boating
  • Watched the Palmyra Pageant

Favorite Foods:

  • Eggs
  • Full-fat yogurt with Maple Syrup
  • Cheese Sticks
  • Veggie Straw Chips
  • Pickles
  • Ice Cream (You literally cry because you're so sad it's over. We know how you feel, buddy.)
  • Lemons (Weird, I know)
  • Brown Rice/ Quinoa Noodles
  • Annie's Macaroni & Cheese
  • Smoothies 
  • Bananas

I've probably forgotten something somewhere about you. The time we've had together is so full, but at the same time peaceful. I don't want to forget any of it . . . But all I can do is watch you grow, and keep taking photos of it. I love you, Alo Monroe. You are my everything. Happy First Birthday.

(The Adventures of You & Me) alo alo monroe baby birthday boy little fox one year old personal son writing Mon, 18 Sep 2017 13:30:00 GMT
Back to the Blogosphere


Hello world. I'm back. (( With my own website this time! ))

Backstory: I used to blog religiously. Like several-times-a-week, too-many-photos, share-the-link-on-Facebook type of blogging. I'll admit, sometimes I definitely over-shared certain things in my personal life. But, I don't really regret it. What I do regret is stopping blogging. When I got engaged to my husband, life got a lot busier but also a lot simpler in lots of ways. I was in my last semester of college, Jared was applying to medical school, and we were gearing up to move to the other side of the country. So... something had to give. Blogging, music, and writing in general were just a few of those things that seemed to fall by the wayside. I became comfortable with the age-old excuse of "well, all that angst from being single is gone so....guess I'm all out of material!" I also didn't feel like I had to impress anyone anymore. I didn't have to prove that I was pithy or clever or talented to my peers. I started to shrivel up creatively, and when I moved away to a particularly unfriendly small town in Pennsylvania, I started turning more inward and becoming more private, for fear of judgement. That is not a time of my life I hold with much fondness and it really affected me. 

I also had a bit of an exhausting experience with writing in general. I went through a time in my life where I had made a few close friends through a creative writing class, and a few in my editing program in college. We were passionate, perhaps naive, and ready to get published. I loved that time of my life dearly. I know I had a good story brewing inside of me, and I brought the best I could to the table in my novel-writing class, and am still to this day proud of that work. However, I think the pressure of finishing something I knew was really more of an exercise than something that would come to end up on a shelf at Barnes and Nobel, really bothered me. I felt compelled to finish it like how you're sometimes compelled to finish a book you don't like BUT you've started and there's noooo going back now. There is, I believe a bit of an unhealthy culture among writers that "YOU MUST WRITE EVERY SINGLE DAY OR ELSE YOU ARE NOT A REAL WRITER AND WILL NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING." Like the DMV, Home Owner's Associations, and anything else mandatory and bureaucratic, the pressure to write every day turned into a chore that I resented. Combine that with many months of freelance editing some truly terrible self-published YA novels, and I got burnt out and tired. 

I'm not writing this because I feel the need to explain to anyone why it is that I stopped writing. I'm not embarrassed that I failed at something. I'm proud that I can admit that I failed at something and that I've learned more about myself in the process. I'm writing this to give myself permission to write again, whenever the heck I want, however often I want, and to share a piece of myself with you again. I'm ecstatic to report that I am much happier than I've been over the past 3 years. I live in a town that is much warmer (though not temperature-wise), and have made life-long friends I know I'll look forward to seeing again throughout my life. 

Obviously, this is a photography website first and foremost, so I plan on sharing lots of fun client and personal work with you! So while this post has few images attached, look forward to seeing many more in the future. I have found something I truly L O V E doing, and hope to rekindle the relationship I had with writing in the process. 



Until next time! 



(The Adventures of You & Me) back to blogosphere first post personal writing Sat, 02 Sep 2017 17:57:10 GMT